Be Likable

Yes, it is fully in your control. It really has nothing to do with whether you are intelligent or gregarious. There are some things that you can work on to make you more likable. First of all, it is important to ask questions when listening to someone. You’ll be surprised how much respect and appreciation you gain just by asking questions. Next, if you are committed to having a conversation with someone, put away your phone services and actually listen to them. While you are having that conversation remember to have an open mind and truly consider the ideas that the other person is talking about before shutting them down. Using an enthusiastic tone, uncrossing your arms, maintaining eye contact, and leaning towards the person who’s speaking are all forms of positive body language that high-EQ people use to draw others in. Positive body language can make all the difference in a conversation. Lastly, remember to smile because that is also a part of the positive body language.